We dont ask to get cheated on

Im not trying to down the male population but lately it seems that guys think that we choose to get cheated on. I mean sometimes girls do choose to be cheated on ignoring the facts and just plain acting as if they were blind but for the reality type girl that be up on their man's game we dont choose to be cheated on. Every women is not the same. Not all girls are stupid. So why is it when girls get with a guy and they really start feeling each other and if s*x is not presented the guy feels he should go out and find someone else without letting the girl know that you need to be s*xually active. I mean we dress provocative because were looking for what we want in life, that doesn't give anyone the right to be like she a hoe because of the way she dresses and it doesn't mean we like to get cheated on because of the way we act either. Asking us why women choose guys that they know is going to cheat on them is like asking a guy why he chooses a girl he's going to cheat on. When relationships go wrong its because they dont have a connection between the two not because the guy is a drug dealer or the girl is stupid or they both dont care about neither one of each other. A relationship works because they care about each other and they have a connection between each other. Not for any other reason. Well in my opinon.
Tell me what ya'll think
Im out
Shonda