HBCU.COM

Press Enter to search or select a section to narrow results

HBCU.COM

What am i suppose to say? Need a response ASAP

LaShonda Redd · Wednesday, July 13th 2005 at 12:12PM · 127 views
I've looked into this girls eyes a thousand times and each time i have seen nothing but a little girl trying to take care of herself the best way she knows how but yet when trying to give a helping hand it just doesn't seem like enough. I saw this girl today being her regular self screaming attention when her clothes and s*xual gestures but yet i know thats not what she wants for herself. She comes to me with problems and advice to help and each time i give my 100 percent but this time i cant. She tells me she's pregnant. What am i suppose to tell her? She doesn't know who the father is or where to start to look. A 15 yr old girl on the path for destruction.

She blurts out abortion, adoption, molestation, her whole life's story the things she been through the storied she has to tell but yet i still have no answer to her current problem. What am i suppose to tell this girl. I have never put myself in this situation nor do i plan to i dont even know anyone that has been in a situation that relates to this. What am i suppose to tell this girl ya'll. She keeps talking about suicide and abortion and i just dont have the words to say HELP. I dont want to see her dead.
Im out
Shonda

About the Author

LaShonda Redd Spfld, MA
Posts Subscribe Profile Email
Report

Share This Article

X Facebook LinkedIn Reddit Email

Comments (4)

Edward ( Chad ) Wednesday, July 13th 2005 at 3:03PM

I dont know, First you have to show love and Pray and ask God to help you to help her cause she needs help BAD and I really dont know what else to say. Where is her parents? Im goin to pray for you and her. Just let God use you in a way to help her. let me know what happens ~1~

Darryl D. Smith Wednesday, July 13th 2005 at 4:51PM

As Eminem said, "I think you need some counseling
to help your ass from bouncing off the walls when you get down some." Get her some counseling. You don't want to see her dead. Also, try to help her see the positive things in life. If she needs to, she can hit me up and I can talk to her...

M
Monica Brown Wednesday, July 13th 2005 at 6:30PM

Baby Girl, this is too much for you. Since she trusts you, you need to talk to her about getting someone else involved that can help with these problems. You have so much on your own plate, that you can actually become overwhelmed with someone else's situations. Pray before you talk to her and ask God to give you the correct words to say and to soften her heart that she will be able to see that she needs some help. Stay prayed up.

Mama Mo

SHALECIA BRANCH Wednesday, July 13th 2005 at 9:15PM

TELL HER THE REAL DEAL DONT SUGAR COAT NOTHING.CAUSE IF YOU DO THAT YOU WILL MISLEAD HER BUT AT THE SAME TIME BE SYMPATHTIC TO HER SITUATION.WHEN SOME PEOPLE FEEL TRAPPED THE BREAK DOWN. SHE HAS BEEN TOOKEN OVER BY HER ENVIRONMENT. SHE COULD HAVE OVER TOOK IT AND MADE BUT BEST BUT WHATS DONE IS DONE. DO WHATEVER YOU AND DON'T LEAVE HER SIDE

Post a Comment

Please log in to post comments.

More From This Author

Alone but not alone

WOW ITS BEEN A MIN.

Im back with something for ya

Is It True?

A little goes along way

Home Sick