I need help!!!!! ASAP

You shouldn't just cut her off like that. Tell her how you feel, and hopefully, she'll understand. That's what happens when you get friends with benefits: they become attached!

And you guys can still be friends...

Well I think you should talk to her and let her know how you feel. Honesty is the best policy even if it means hurting her feelings. Also, make sure that she understands what you're telling her and get her full attention. Don't have this discussion with her while she's around friends or watching tv because that's too many distractions. Make sure she gives you her full attention. You'll be fine. Just be as considerate as possible and you'll be ok.

RUN, n*gga RUN!!!! dont give her the new number and avoid her til you go away to school. Unless she is real stalker she won't be able to contact you for a while once your gone. Don't bone no more chicks you don't really like. If she got pregnant you would be stuck wit her forever dog.

Straight out from the beginning you should have told her what the outcome of your friendship with benefits would be. Making sure you had your guide lines out there in the open. But because she is younger than you she might be looking for something that is long term and you need to let her know that, thats not what your looking for. This is one of those times where you do something nice for her to let her down easy. You know take her out and tell her in a calm setting and voice that you have other plans that your persuing and she's just not one of them right now. Im sure the girl must have good qualities cause most girls do, tell her there will be others for her that will care for her the way she wants to be cared for. Come on i know you can tap into those manly instincts and say what you would want to hear if the situation was flipped and you were the one wanting someone who didn't want a commitment. I agree with Jasmine honest with some sugar on the top is the best policy.
Im out
Shonda

Well me personally. i would call her up and explain her how you really feel. Maybe she is getting mixed signals. If you just ignore her then you are doing her wrong. Just sit down man to woman and hold a decent conversation with her and explain everything. I think that you should completely honest with her no matter if it hurts her feelings or not.

Don't ignore her, that's the worst thing you can do. Lets say you ignore her then in the future you become involved with someone then they happen to shout out they love you and you're not ready to hear that, are you gonna run from that too? So be a man and tell her you don't feel the same. It's better for her to hear you tell her that you don't feel the same than just ignoring her like a lot of men have been known to do. I was in a relationship with this guy for a year, then one day I stopped hearing from him, he never returned my calls or nothing. This happened in May and I still haven't heard from him. Please don't be a coward like him and run from your problems or sticky situations. It'll not only help you become a better man but a better person.

I think you need to sit down and talk to her and just let her know that the both of yall feelings aint the same for each other. Let her know in a nice way that you are just not wanting to be that kind of friend with and plus you are going to school. If it's cool with you just tell her that yall need to just be friends without benefits. If she a descent looking girl and yall aint never been like dat she should have no problem with yall just bein friends. But don't make her feel bad about it, justlet her know that she is a pretty girl and you just want to be friends. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE whatever you do dont hurt her or make her feel like she aint worth nothing. Just think if it was you, how would you want someone to tell you!!