Have you ever?

Really Think about it. perhaps give your-self some space, you know seperate from him for a while and if it's right time will tell

I see everyone tellin you take ur time and take it slow, but don't over think it. When love hits, let it. Yes, you have to watch who you give your heart to and be careful not to fall too hard too fast, but don't fight how you truly feel. Trust me, I know from experience how bad it is to fight your emotions. It can harden you and make you cold and distant, and you don't wanna be like that. This guy my not become your husband, but like they say, "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." Most everyone has to go through a few heartbreaks, but don't let fear stop you from something that could be amazing.

Good luck!! :-)

I know what you mean... I am going through something similar... And everyone is trying to tell me what do and how to do it... But the best advice I was given was to do what I think is best, and to make a SMART and WISE choice, because anyone could give you advice but only you know what makes you happy. And that's wha's really important... So you think about it, but don't stress over it. Keep in touch...

presently, i am in the same sitch, and when i talk to my girl ab it she always says, leave him alone, he keeps hurting u. it's as if she doesn't understand what it's like to care so much for a man. if it were that simple i would leave him alone, but it isn't...matters of the heart aren't simple at all. so i think you should do what u want to do. if the good outweighs the bad and u wanna stick with it, so be it--that's ur decision. know this tho, homeboy is gonna do precisely what u allow him to get away with, so if u feel as tho he's gettin away with too much, put ur man in his place...the bottom line is, it's ur heart, nobody knows what ur feelin so the decisions relative to ur man should be just that...ur decision; don't let ppl get in ur head. and ur man can only make u cry if u let him.