A QUICK QUESTION???
I really dont have too much to talk about...i just felt like teling yall again that IM TOO CRUNK ABOUT COLLEGE...i get crunker and crunker everyday!!! However im kinda worried cuz it seems like everyone is gonna be in HH...but i aint trippen im gone have cool peeps wit me in ABBY!!
But what i came here for is to ask yall a quick question. Ok my bf doesnt understand(and i kinda dont understand) why is it takin so long for me to fully trust him again...i mean when he hurt me it changed sumthin on the inside of me to where im not really connected to him at that level...i think this distance is gonna bring me back to him though...he says that he wont feel comfortable with me not trusting him 100% b4 we leave but i know thats not gonna happen...I try to tell him that trust is sumthing that people easily give away but when its lost it takes a long time to give it back...i mean he messed up like in february...so what should i do ne suggestions????
But what i came here for is to ask yall a quick question. Ok my bf doesnt understand(and i kinda dont understand) why is it takin so long for me to fully trust him again...i mean when he hurt me it changed sumthin on the inside of me to where im not really connected to him at that level...i think this distance is gonna bring me back to him though...he says that he wont feel comfortable with me not trusting him 100% b4 we leave but i know thats not gonna happen...I try to tell him that trust is sumthing that people easily give away but when its lost it takes a long time to give it back...i mean he messed up like in february...so what should i do ne suggestions????
BECAUSE TRUST IS SOMETHING THAT DON"T COME EASY. TRY TRUSTING A MAN WHO CHEATED * TIMES AND ALMOST MARRIED YOU>!!! Sorry I was venting but anyway... HE HAS TO EARN IT BACK PLAIN AND SIMPLE. BUT REALLY THOUGH.. ask yourself these questions? Is what he did that bad to where I can't forgive him? Is this someone who has done this before? Am I seriously considering a long term relationship with this person( and you know what I mean)? Has he apologized? If yes was it sincere? DO I really have time to go back and forth if this happens again? How deep are my feelings for him?