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JUST ME AND MY BOYFRIEND

SHALECIA BRANCH · Wednesday, June 29th 2005 at 1:37AM · 125 views
WELL TIME IS SLOWLY PASSIN AND THE MORE TIME I SPEND WITH HIM THE MORE I FALL IN LOVE.MY BOYFRIEND IS SUCH A GOOD DUDE.HIS 4 YEARS OLDER THEN ME WHICH MAKES HIM 20 AND ME 17 I WILL BE 18 IN NOV BUT THE LOVE IS THERE IM FAR FROM NAIVE MATURE IS ALL I AM SO HE CLAIMS DATS ONE OF THE REASONS HE FELL SO DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH ME BUT THE THING IS WHAT AM I GONNA DO ABOUT COLLEGE.HE DOESNT UNDERSTAND THAT I NEED THE EXPERIENCE SO HE TELLS ME NO AS SOON AS I BRING UP THE TOPIC.DECISIONS DECISIONS.. I LOVE HIM BUT SCHOOL COMES FIRST ....IM SO LOST WITHOUT HIM THOUGH HE HAS BEEN THERE BUT I NEED 2 BE ABLE 2 EXPAND. WHAT AM I GONNA DO????????

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SHALECIA BRANCH SPRINGFIELD GARDENS, NY

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Alise P. Wednesday, June 29th 2005 at 3:03AM

yeah girl sit down and have that talk with him about your future and also your future with him. Le thim knwo how you feel abou school. Ask him why he feels that way about you leavn and ask if he is goin to be behind you 100%. But yeah girl you're right school does come first.

Brittany Hughes Wednesday, June 29th 2005 at 12:12PM

I've been in love before, so I know exactly where you are. If he's "the one" for you, he'll back you 100% no matter what because he only wants the best for you. I understand that ya'll have differences regarding this decision, but a college degree can only guarantee success, not failure. Stick with your man because love is hard to find, but only if he's willing to stick with you no matter what.

Lexi T Wednesday, June 29th 2005 at 4:26PM

girl. well first off-- he is 3 years older than u- not 4. anyway...if he's the 1 for you then u will be able to go to school and he'll support u through whatever. school comes first! u have your whole life ahead of you to find another good man if he's not the one once u go to school. thing it through b4 making your final decision! high school diplomas don't bring good jobs on their own.... love without money(from a good job) is nothing... think long term and not just short term!!! good luck!!

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Janay Reed Friday, July 1st 2005 at 10:25AM

I am in the same situation, sort of. I am in love with my boyfriend, and I am the one that doesnt want to leave him. He supports my goals and wants me to go to college. He isnt to thrilled about me going to Ohio since we live in DC, but we will deal with it together. I pray that everything works out because we have been through sooo much and he is my soulmate. I'm just so nervous and I pray every night that our relationship will last forever.

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