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Happy!!!

Tiffany Wells · Thursday, June 23rd 2005 at 11:05PM · 138 views
Okay before I get into the happy part, I have to give yall alil' background info! I usually try to hide my feelings from my family and friends because I don't want them to worry about me but I'm not always a happy-go-lucky person. I get down sumtimes when things don't go the way I planned or sumone treates me really bad. So lately, I have been down about a lot of situations that are going on in my life right now but all of a sudden, these past few days, I have been really happy. I guess its because I kinda have a new person in my life. I'm not gone say his name (*Frank*) cuz he knows who he is! (lol smile:-) but he has really put a smile on my face and makes me laugh when we talk. I even forget about all the bad things I'm goin thru when I'm talkin to him. I really wish I could be wit him but as of right now, we are in 2 different states, hundreds of miles away! The good thing is that when I go to school in the fall, he will only be a few hours away but I kinda wanna be wit him now. So the question is.....what should I do??

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Alise P. Friday, June 24th 2005 at 12:29AM

HEY GIrl Im glad you're happy right now. I think Im goin through my lil happy streak now... again like you I kinda have someone in my life but on the real I just am not ready to get back to the relationship role yet. If he's only a few hours away girl don't sweat it. If its meant to be trust me yall will make a way to see each other. But keep on smiling and smile because you're alive and healthy too. Take Care... Oh by the way you just inspired me to actually buy something from my job(hollister). LMBO I was like I can't fit nothin in hear nor is it in my fashion zone..

Darryl D. Smith Friday, June 24th 2005 at 12:05PM

Well...I can only give you some good advice, as I've tried the long distance thing before. It didn't work for me, but that doesn't mean the same for you.

You must ask yourself this question. When you go to school in the fall, will you be able to stay true to him with all the other "fine brothas" on campus? Will you be able to go long lengths of time not seeing him (a few hours becomes days when you in school)? Will you be able to handle him being where he is without you (I got cheated on, so you must ask yourself that)? Do you think that the relationship is more than friendship?

You need to talk to homeboy and see if he has the same feelings you have. If he doesn't, stay a friend to him, as he makes you smile. If he does, talk to him about a long-distance relationship, ONLY after you have answered the questions I posed above...

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