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Should I Or Shouldn't I? (508 hits)

I don't know if many of you know, but I am a virgin. As the days go by, it's get harder and harder to stay one. I'm talking about having s*xual fantasies more than a mug and just the desire is trying to pull me in.

I never promised to stay a virgin until marriage, but that is one thing I said I would TRY to do. But...it's continues to get harder and harder. I'm trying to fight the temptations, but they get stronger and stronger.

Now don't fret. I'm not talking about going out and becoming a ho and having s*x with everybody. I'm just saying, is it worth it to wait until you're married? If I do have s*x, it'll be with someone I'm in a relationship with, hopefully. But as I said, the desires keep getting strong, and my curiosity reeks of wanting to know.

All opinions are welcomed on this topic. Am I becoming something I don't want to be: a s*x addict???

Posted By: Darryl D. Smith
Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 9:52PM
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I dont think you should. I know how hard it is becuase I a virgin too. But I think you should wait because why give up somehting so precious. That is the best gift you could every give you wife. Plus are the girls out here really worth. I aint tryin to play all females but some are hoes just like some males are hoes. So i think you should wait. Another thing if you do lose it know you more than likely will turn into a hoe becuase it will be so addictive. Thats another reason why I am holdin tight til marriage.
Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 11:30PM
LaToya Brown

its really not worth giving up your virtues...The pleasure is there but it is only minimal compared to what it will be like with your wife who adorns you compared to doing it with someone who is also doing it with everybody else. Be strong and save yourself- you will be happy you did. Plus, too many people are deceptive and you don't want to get involved with the wrong one...STD's are quite prominent in the teen-20's group..
Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 11:43PM
Mitchell Tarver

I agree with everyone here...try to wait as long as you can. Like they said, there are a host of STD's out there and almost everone always hasa special place in their heart for the person who takes their virginity. You don't want to have that feeling about someone if they don't feel it for you, cause it could kill you inside for a long time...Try to wait until you find that special someone and when you do, she will value your virginity so much and if she really loves you, she will be able to wait until marriage. I know it's hard but stick it out...But if you do end up losing your virginity before you really wanted to, just remember Dont regret anything you do, just learn from it. Good luck!
Thursday, June 23rd 2005 at 12:06AM
Ru A.

DON'T DO IT!!!! Trust me when I tell you, waiting untill you marry is such a better idea than not waiting. Not that I have any regrets about having s*x prior to getting married, because my experiences have definitely taught me a lot about life and who I am as a person. However, if I had the ability to turn back the hands of time I would have definitely waited, if not until marriage then longer than I did. s*x confuses things, especially when both sides are not on the same page. So wait if not for your own personal reasons then at least to avoid unnecessary confusion in your life.
Thursday, June 23rd 2005 at 12:55AM
Tanganica Turner

Everything that has been said is DEFINATELY reason enough to hold out until marriage.. But Gurl when it's all over WE cant make the decision, You have to... so u do what you kno is best... It's not always good to act on how these lil boys make you feel either... cuz once they bust one, they cold care less about how you feel.. A boy reaches his s*xual peak at 14-16 a female doesnt reach hers until around age 24 !!! Think about that
Thursday, June 23rd 2005 at 2:10AM
Jasmine Spratt

Hey Darryl. My fellow GRAMBLINITE listen...DO WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO. Yea we can all sit here and say wait and it'll be worth it, but those are strictly the opinions of US. Some people don't feel as if its worth waiting until you're married. I just say DO YOU. Only YOU know what's best for YOU. YOU are smart and YOU know to be responsible in ANYTHING you do. Honestly s*x, IN MY OPINION, is not anything until you're with someone you care about. She ain't gotta be no girlfriend just make sure YOU guys are on the same page. THat's all. Boy, you straight...and if not there's always your right and left hand :)
Thursday, June 23rd 2005 at 5:01AM
Krystal Franklin

Keep it man!!! its not too many of men out these days that can hold out but yeah stay focus on your goals and if you do find that one person wrap it up like the commerical said

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Thursday, June 23rd 2005 at 1:33PM
Kennard Wheat

First of all no one can tell you what to do but only give advice. It's very rare to see a brotha not having s*x but trust me it's not a bad thing. I know exactly what you're going thru with all of the fantasies and desires but it's normal and you shouldn't give it up unless the other person is special. Whether you're married or not. Be smart, be safe, and keep it real.
Friday, June 24th 2005 at 8:54PM
Erin Yarborough

I CANT ANSWER IF YOU SHOULD OR NOT BUT I THINK THAT IF YOU ARE TEMPTED THAT YOU SHOULD THINK IS IT ONLY BECAUSE YOU ARE A VIRGIN OT BECAUSE YOU FEEL LIKE THE TIME IS RIGHT, DONT LET YOUR HORMONES MAKE DECISIONS YOUR HEART CANT HANDLE
Tuesday, July 26th 2005 at 3:36PM
Erica S