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so my friend was tellin me that she had met this really fine dude and on the first night they ended up sleeping together....i told her that that wasnt good because u dont want a dude to look at u as if u were a hoe and she was like they just got caught up in the moment.....what do u guys think????i mean i just feel that there is a negative stigma that goes with a female if she sleeps with a dude on the first date but hey maybe thatz just me....i feel that a female should get to know the dude before she is ready to make the descision to give herself to that man.....too many females end up getting a bad name because they got "caught up" in the moment....i would love to hear dudes and females position on this

Posted By: KeKe Rogers
Sunday, June 12th 2005 at 2:21PM
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From a females point of view, I feel closer to your perspective on this. You are right, there is a lot of females caught in the moment and that leads to situations leaving you caught with something, whether that is a STD, a bad rep or even a child. So females should have respect for themselves and have a lil more control over their temptations. PEACE
Sunday, June 12th 2005 at 10:38PM
Shy Miles

I don't think that anybody should be sleeping with anybody if you're not married to them! I don't believe that anyone has the right to tell anybody else what to do if they are not doing right themselves. Regardless, if you have s*x with someone on the first or the 2000th night, if you're not married, its not right! Just expressing my opinon, please don't get upset. ~Alana Out!
Monday, June 13th 2005 at 1:51AM
Alana Toolie