DON'T YOU JUST HATE IT!

Yes I think it is up to the niccas to approach us Females first. They should call us first and eveything. When a nicca gets my number I have to let them know that they are the ones that's gonna have to call me first and if I ain't there that's when I will hit them back up. That's just how I am. I don't know if im the only one to do it or not.

The reason I believe that is because of the past experiences I've had. I've tried to be nice, but women shoot me down for any reason whatsoever. They would do it in a nasty way, as if the whole world had to know. Or they would just lie about it and show that they lied in my face. So, I just gave up on asking women out. I'm currently waiting for Mrs. Right to come into my life...but I doubt that will happen soon...

Darryl is right. It becomes hard for a guy to approach a young lady because of those past experiences. Most of the fellas out there have taken a shot at a female and, at some point, come up with a terrible result. Most men can take you telling them "no".....it's the games that come along with the "no" that puts them in defensive mode. He knows that she has a real interest if she's willing to call him so a lot of times he'll be willing to wait it out. He'll approach you once he realizes what's going on. Much love...

I agree with you Sis, I say men get climatrized to all the very aggresive Women/females that are out there.
I am planning to write about my past back in the day black beach daytona weekends while in college.
No play when being the cordial one but when I noticed how the same females would do anything for the guys that had no respect for them well......
Good post Sis.
Jus being real with you.
Just look at the world, your peers etc. and see how some carry themselves.
But the right man for you or the right woman for the man, if he is the man of valor, he will step to her 1st but she has to give off the aura that she is approachable?????