I know we all remember that phrase from our elementary and middle school days (some high school). When your friend or someone would say one thing and act another way. But I wonder are women two faced.
This thought occurred to me when I met this attractive guy that was in the military. I wasn’t interested, being married and all, but could tell he was, we were in a public working environment so we talked, not flirted but talked. I guess we were talking about each other and life. I told him I was married and had a little girl, and said he had two boys, (he being older than I his boys were not so little). Right than I though even if I wasn’t married I am definitely not interested now. But I could tell me having kids didn’t bother him at all, Maybe cause he was older but whatever the case he wasn’t effected.
This is just one example I mean by a women being two faced. I know plenty of women, like myself, that don’t want a man with kids. Believe me, it isn’t for everyone, but most women with kids expect a man to understand that s*I* happens. I mean a good thing would be that he would be an immature boy in a man’s body, because in most situations, not all, a man having kids will make him grow up quick.
Not only that. I know that no woman wants a man that thinks she is going to take care of him (financially), but some of those same women look for the man with money to buy them clothes, shoes, and pay the rent.
I believe all women should have their standards and know what they want in there lives, but we can’t say one thing and expect men to take it from us. What are we thinking?
Just letting some of my young women know we need to grow and expand our minds. You never know your prince may be the one holding the child.
Posted By: Alexandria Jackson
Wednesday, July 12th 2006 at 11:37AM
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