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When is it time to give up on a crush??

When is it time to give up on a crush??

camille c · Sunday, June 11th 2006 at 10:17PM · 215 views
Since the fall semster it's been this one boy that has been partialy on my mind, I would see him and try to give him the eye or flirt but he would never repond (I think becuz he is kinda quiet, this went on for a whole year, but he would never speak to me or even give me a quick glance but this weekend me and my freind went up to school for a party he is there for summer school. I saw him and was trying to let him know that I was feeling him but he really was'nt responding, I told my freind to tell him I like him, He tells her,"Yeah I was gonna to do that anyway, I wanted to talk to her while when we were on campus." the night progresses he still has'nt said anything to me so again my freind approaches him and he tells her "it is'nt the right time but I am going to do it". he is making small talk but not really saying much and always in passing my freind decides she is to tired and drunk to drive so, we end up staying there with him and his roomates in their suite. I even slept in his room while he slept on the couch in the living room and my freind slept in his roomate's bed with his ROOMATE, he even came in a few times while I was in between sleep but still never said a thing to me, does this mean he is uninterested? or is he just shy?? should I just approach him?? or leave it alone

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Tyrecha Davis Sunday, June 11th 2006 at 11:38PM

he is shy..becuz he did say he was going to approach u. when the time is right he will. he probably doesnt know how to talk to a girl he likes. give him some time. what's the rush?

Sharon Taylor Monday, June 12th 2006 at 10:32AM

it could be that he's shy then again it could be that he is just not interested. give it sometime. if after about one good month or even weeks he hadsn't come around look in another direction. then meaybe if he really wants u and c that u have moved on hell come around. if not then he doesn't want u!

Shay J Monday, June 12th 2006 at 11:42AM

yeah i agree with tyrecha maybe he haave a lot on his mind or maybe he's in a relationship and need time for it to smooth thin. or maybe he has hesitation about you.

Ariana Simmons Monday, June 12th 2006 at 1:28PM

yea he could be all of those. approach him and if he's still acting stupid, leave it alone. maybe after you leave it alone and stop worrying about it, he might come to his senses if he's really feeling you like he told your friend.

Darryl D. Smith Tuesday, June 13th 2006 at 2:29AM

I have an idea. Instead of you waiting on him, how about you approach him? It seems that he is shy, but he's feeling you. I think he doesn't know what to say or what to do in this situation, so do a favor and help the brother out...

WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III Tuesday, June 13th 2006 at 8:59AM

There is a time for all things...
Have you prayed if so, God did so for a reason.

ROBYN Jubilee Wednesday, June 14th 2006 at 6:28PM

There is only one way of knowing for sure if he's feeling you or not. You need to approach him, even if it's about something other than you and him. If he's truly shy, then he would appreciate you coming to him. He may want to come to you but his shyness may be stopping him. By going to him and forming a relationship, even if it's a casual convo here and there, he would feel more comfortable when around you and maybe he would mention to you how he is feeling you. Be patient, but don't sit and wait around for him to come to you either.

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