ok here's the deal. my father and i never really had a relationship. we talk maybe 4 times a year at the most. it's been real nasty. he just started paying child support 2 months ago. and this is check #9 from him since ive been 2 when he and my mother divorced.
so i contemplated about inviting him to graduation. my mother said that i should...so taking her advice i called to invite him and his wife b/c i have extra tickets. he told me that he'd see if he can come b/c Jaques (his STEP son) graduation may be on the same day. what happened to me? your first child! my grandmother (his mother) called to ask him if he was coming, again. no answer. sooo...should i proceed to invite him or invite 2 other people?
i was trying to be kind and not act ugly. he's been sick and lost his sight but he's now gaining it back...just trying to have sympothy for the man. no matter how much he has hurt me i still have that soft spot b/c he's my dad and i always wanted to be close to him.
so family, what should i do?
Posted By: Tiffany Marshall
Thursday, May 18th 2006 at 12:17AM
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