STOP MAKING EXCUSES!!!!!
Why must the females in society feel like we have to make-up excuses and lies for the irresponsible males we choose to associate ourselves with. I mean, it's not my fault he's inconsiderate, disrepectful to you as a person, and down right no good. Who in this world in their right mind would want to protect a person like that? I think it's pitiful to constantly keep setting yourself up to believe a guy can be a certain way, and time after time when he fails to uphold your expectations we as women give more and more chances for him to keep shooting our words down. So why make an excuse for him? If he aint sh*t he aint sh*t. Holla!
My opinion is that it all starts with family. I know a lot of ladies where I live that dont know how it is to have a door opened for them, chair pulled out, or even to be the first ot walk through the door. They dont know what a man should do because their father wasnt there or he never done it for their mother. It also goes for the "boys." I call them boys because they havent learned how a woman or anyone should me treated. It starts with family and like the guy said on "Unleashed." "Get them when their young and posibilities are endless."