In the soul
Whenever I tell someone I'm feeling them, 6 times outta 10 I really am, but I am trying to get to know them first....You know, "exploring my options". But really, what is that about? Is that an excuse not to be faithful or is it legit in the way that nobody is tied down? I believe in the later.... I wouldn't want anybody to tie me down because they so-called "like" me. Question, "DO I really WANT to be with this person?" Hence exploring options. Nobody gets hurt and all is on the table.......I believe this is reasonable.....Since we are all grown adults or at least supposed to be, we can take this....RIGHT?
Well, when you tell someone that u like them that is how u let them know that u wanna get to know them. If you're serious, you wouldn't be trying to get to know them and other girls at the same time. I think that everyone always has the thought cross their mind while in a relationship with someone that there might be someone else out there who would be better for them. I don't think you're using this as an excuse not to be faitful, it sounds more like you may have a fear of committment. Take some time out and thing about how long your longest relationship lasted, y it ended, and when you were last in a serious relationship.