Hater (noun)|[hayt.ur]1. people that exhibit strong distaste for something or someone often in a way that evokes anger, hostility or animosity.
When haters cannot find “genuine” fault in you… you may consider yourself to be perfect!
This perfection doesn’t mean you are faultless, but is meant in this connotation… to have integrity and correctness! There are no obvious inaccuracies, ambiguities or vagueness about you or your personality. There won’t be vagueness and haziness about where you stand on any issue!
You are usually precise, distinct and attentive. This perfection means you have come to a level of maturity that enhances not only your own life, but those of the people around you. You are extraordinary…distinctly unique, not mediocre or mundane. There are a lot of people who I find in over 20 years of HR Training and Development, who simply “go along to get along.”
The purpose of their own lives usually gets lost in years of hard living and dissatisfaction because they have settled for being a carbon copy of someone else, rather than liking who they really are. For many, their own imbalanced and marred view of their own personality and their inability to interact with others frankly and confidently causes them to feel as if they are inadequate to strive for any level of “perfection.” Fear of the “haters” finding some type of "fault" with them and their life perspective has paralyzed their very existence.
Haters will, many times attempt to design schemes to entrap individuals into disfavor with the "powers that be"… appealing to their ego, statue and authority. They will appeal to those in authority (usually those with "excessive, pretentious egos") in order to work their schemes and will ultimately involve you in what they consider some kind of misconduct or misbehavior.
For many haters, entrapment is the hidden tool of choice that is used to afflict and come against a person of obvious integrity. Their envy, imagination and perceptions of others, get the better of them. Integritous people usually outshine haters, and in turn, cause haters to do and say things designed to hurt people of integrity… and their influence!
For me, I can usually process instances of people hating my life view by going to my own authoritative source and final authority, which I find in the written Word of God. (Bible). This tried and true reference always gives me clarity and direction as to how to handle every situation…and I do mean…every situation…I succeeded over every one! Hence..my journey in life has been most successful and happy!
Here’s my own personal reference that I found for all the “haters”:
The “disreputable” watches the reputable and seeks to eradicate, to diminish and downgrade their influence, the LORD will not leave him in his hand. {Ps. 37:32-40} nvdaniels version
My favorite empowerment text is found in the book of Daniel chapter 6. This text displays a superb example of haters attempting to entrap an individual named Daniel. Daniel's enemies knew that he prayed 3 times a day (as is his spiritual commitment) so they coerced the King to put a law on the books decreeing that whosoever would pray to any other "god" beside himself (the King), would be dropped in a den of hungry lions! The king agreed. Talk about an "inflated sense of one's own importance!"
When Daniel became aware of this decree, he continued to do what he has always done "serve his God" continually! He continued to pray, continued to believe and would not bow under the pressure of disillusioned individuals. He continued to be steadfast, unmovable, bold and faithful to the real God who had called him! The outcome, as you may know, was in his favor. No harm came to him, only to the ones that attempted to entrap him!
There will always be haters…but not many people of essence. Let’s all endeavor to stand for something more than associating with insecure and superficial relationships that cannot have your back or those that have no prospect of success. After all, we are all striving to be successful and not failures...right?
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Posted By: Nardra V. Daniels
Friday, June 10th 2011 at 1:13PM
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