You're at a dance. You're chilling, not dancing with anyone but yourself and your homegirls. A guy comes to ask you to dance...what is the guy supposed to do?
The reason I asked is because while I was in Atlanta, I went to this end-of-convention dance for National Association of Black Journalists. I approached this girl that had been throwing me some glances to dance. I tapped her on her waist and started dancing. She, in turn, turned around and started dancing with homegirls again. I did the "snake" move and slid out of there.
I was a little hurt because I was like, "You can't lead peeps on like that." However, my coworker told me it was all about my approach. I've seen guys do the same approach and it works.
So...where did I go wrong? Was I supposed to grab her or something???
Posted By: Darryl D. Smith
Wednesday, August 10th 2005 at 6:53PM
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