Rape or NOT!!!

This saturday morning, my girl lost her virginity to a guy she's only known for a 6 days. She is dating this guy and they've been dating for about a little over a year. But she didnt tell me until we left his house and went to eat and ruby tuesdays. i knew something was wrong because she had a worried look on her face. i thought she felt bad for just spending the night over there. so i started singing 'girl' by DC. but when she asked me what was teh worst thing that could have happened i froze. the whole day she felt sick, saying she wanted to kill her self and she didnt deserve to h her boyfriend anymore. i tried to comfort her but me still being pure i didnt knowo what to say.

My question after this story is do you think he raped her.

Story: she told me "robin i didnt want to do it' she just kept repeating it. then she said that he kept telling her that he wasnt gonna hurt her and its ok. then she said she tried to get him off but couldnt cause he was to big, so i believe she just gave up. she really was sick all day because of what hapopened, and she said that sheh didnt want me to look at her different. but thats not gonna chance our friendship. BUtT do you guys and ladies think he raped her. because honestly if i say NO thats what teh F*** i mean get the hell off me.

and should she tell her boyfriend what happened. she really doesnt want to lose him.

HELP!