My problem
Okay this is my problem I came to school thinking that I would not meet a guy like my best friend but now I see that my interest has changed. I still care about him but I mean I want something that he can't give me right now. I need a dude that has his stuff together and right now he is not at that level. Should I wait for him to get his stuff together if I have my stuff together? But then there is this guy that I met recently and we really hit it off. My whole thing is that this guy that I just met has the qualities plus more that the other guy is missing. I don't know if I should be loyal to a guy that is lacking what I need or should I spend time with I guy that has the things that I need? I know this is an easy question to answer but it's hard to say goodbye to something you have known for so long.
There could be a prob with you dating your best friend. If you go out with him, and the relationship ends rocky, it'll compromise your friendship. However, if you really want an answer to the question...tell your best friend about the question. See if you guys are compatible (not by those stupid tests) and maybey it'll work. If not, move on to the next guy...