Tell Me What U think???

Wassup, so as u can all tell from picture that I am in the military. N-E ways when I first got deployed to Iraq In Feb I had a boyfrerind of 2 and half years. When I first got here all was gravy...Then after about 3 months he started to act up....He went and traded his car in (keep in mind his car he had was gonna be paid off the begining of 06)...not that I had a big problem with that but it was stupid....So, I asked him how much his new car notes was and he said 20 dollars more than his old note which makes it 390...I guess that was aight....Our conversations, emails, letters became shorter...So, I decided that I wanted him out of my place because things werent going good and that wasnt something I needed to worry myself over when I already have enough stress on my brain about staying alive in this hell whole they call Iraq....So, I had my mom go and escort him out my place...But, when my mom went there I found out he wasnt paying the bills (the bill were in his name sooooo..) and that he was paying the bare minimum to keep the bills on, this is also when I found out that his car not was 479 vices the 390 he told me and that his car insurance went up to 287....So, the day before she put him out he gonna say that maybe we need to take a break...In other words he was saying I want to have my cake and eat it to while ur in Iraq...And of course I laughed and was like hell no...So, he left and took all his stuff except a little bit of stuff that he said couldnt fit in his car...so, my mom called him and told him she was gonna be in town for a week so, he had a few more days to come and get his stuff he never came...but he calls her about a week later and says he need to get something of his (not all his stuff just something)...so, my rental people lets him in and he gets exactly what he needs and nothing more...this has been done several times...Y not just take the rest of ur stuff from my place and call it quits???...Now he emails me often asking do I love him and exc....and I delete hi emails because I have nothing to say to him...So, I question myself so was I ur girlfreind or mom???...because when mama was there u acted right now that mama is out of town u act a fool...I'm just venting...Let me know what all yall think...Did I do the right thing or what???...and guys who respond tell me from a guys point of view what he was/is thinking???