JUST FRIENDS...? (help me out ladies)

well to tell you the truth i agree with you because I have a male friend (toxie) who's cool and attractive and we are just friends even though sometimes going out with him runs across my mind , i believe a male and a female can just be friends and not have s*x ontheir minds all of the time

If you are in a relationship it's hard to have a boyfriend/girlfriend while also having a bestfriend of the opposite s*x

I agree with you. I think it is a maturity thing. I believe some of the best type of friends are the opposite s*x. I get along better with guys than females. Some females come with jealousy and other things of that sort so I tend to talk to guys more. If you wanna have a female friend go ahead.

I kind of disagree with a lot of things said because even if you have a friend of the opposite s*x and you dont even find that person attractive, you will be around that person so much and you will find qualities in that person that you like and find yourself moving in on them and you don't even notice it. I know because i had a best friend of the opposite s*x and found myself looking at him like huhh. but i had to remember that we were best friends and we didnt need to ruin everything. eventually things got ruined because afterwhile he started trying to pull fast ones on me. I guess it is based on how you set your grounds. but in my eyes eventually feelings will start flying. I hope i helped and did not confuse you! ya gyrl ~swanny~

And i think males and females can be friends if they are not attracted to each and he looks at the girl as one of his n*gga *smooches*

Your right men and women can be friends. It is a maturity thing i mean if you really feel your s*xuality is more stronger than personality then i can see how it can get in the way. Anyway i have many friends of the opposite s*x and they all work out in the end. I mean they give the best advice on relationships. Its like your getting the best of both worlds. Attraction is a factor in the friendship but that only depends on your self control and if you dont have any then a friend of the opposite s*x just shouldn't be what your looking for.
im out
Shonda