I JUST GOTTA KNOW!

What's good yall? Anyways, this time I actually have two questions. The first question would have to be what makes a person s*xy? Is it their appearance or is it the attitude that they have. And my second question is like many people have discussed, what is the real reason you start talking or dating a person? Is it because of their looks or is it based on their personality? I can easily tell you that I used to date for the wrong reasons, and it caused me alot of pain sometimes. So let me know something. One!