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Should i forgive him

Should i forgive him

Angela Terrell · Tuesday, July 12th 2005 at 3:47PM · 326 views
i was with my boyfriend for nine months. we met at debate camp and it ws love @ first site . The problem ws that he lived in NJ and i lived in RI . Every month i would spened from 300-500$ to c him . we were in love and were going to get married . Then one day in April he told me that he cheated on me . Because i am saving my first time for marrige. So didnt do it with him. he said that it was just s*x but it was the worst feeling i ever felt . I thought I lost apart of me (i Know miriah said the truth lol) . I started talking to other people but i miss him. Last Wensday would of been our one year annivesary. He called me and we had a good Conversation . A first in months. I dont know if it is still ment to be . I know that i should not have to do what I dont want but i still love him

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Alana Toolie Tuesday, July 12th 2005 at 5:35PM

Praise the lord that someone is waiting for marriage, I didn't make it, but I am celibate now. However, you definately shouldn't do anything that goes against your morals or values. If it is meant for you two to be together, there is nothing that either of you can do to change that. Its okay to love someone, but make sure it is just that. You seemed pretty devoted to him. Just let what is meant to be...be. If its not him, I'm positive that God has someone for you ten times better. Stay focused and be blessed. ~Alana Out!!

LaToia Marzette Tuesday, July 12th 2005 at 9:16PM

Well that's good that you are waiting for marriage. My boyfriend and I are too. We've been together going on two years. Yeah, I say forgive him too, but if he cheated on you because you wouldn't have s*x with him, that's kinda harsh and like Kailyn said, You REALLY need to ask yourself if that's tru love. You gotta be able to trust him too. And to both you and Kailyn, if it's tru love and ya'll both want to wait till marriage then ya'll can do it. Shoot, I need to be sayin that to myself too, cuz its hard, but we waitin! Hope ya'll do too

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