PeOpLe aReN't aLWaYz wHo tHeY SaY!!
The "Trifling Boyfriend" blog inspired me 2 post this. Nicole R. (and all you other ladies) tell me what you would have done........
...I met what I thought was the perfect man 1st semester last year. From driving several miles to visit me on campus to showering me with more stuffed animals than anyone could imagine were just a tiny portion of his kindness. About 2-3 months later, things didn't seem quite right; everything was 2 perfect. Well, 4 1/2 months into it; the truth all came out! Come to find out (through his own admittance) he cheated on me with (his guess of) 25 different femalez! His excuse: "It's not u...I just like variety!" That's not all, pick ya jawz up. He has 2 kidz and 2 babymamaz-which I knew nothing of!! Has been sleepin with my floormate-who stayed right next door (and wasnt cute)!! Also was sleepin with some1 on the floor above me! He admitted 2 coming 2 see me; then leaving 2 visit them! And let's not go to the lie he told me about him being in jail 4 3 1/2 weekz; when in actuality was at home!! He'd even call everyday and act like his calls were timed!! And 2 think I was faithful!! I admit-I was played like a dayum bored game! But that heartbreak hurt like a muhf**ga! He is lucky I didn't care enough 2 cut him! Lord knows it crossed my mind! That'll teach me never 2 date men with nicknames like "ROMEO"!! So ladiez, what would you have done? Seeked revenge? Or just say "what goes around comes around"?
...I met what I thought was the perfect man 1st semester last year. From driving several miles to visit me on campus to showering me with more stuffed animals than anyone could imagine were just a tiny portion of his kindness. About 2-3 months later, things didn't seem quite right; everything was 2 perfect. Well, 4 1/2 months into it; the truth all came out! Come to find out (through his own admittance) he cheated on me with (his guess of) 25 different femalez! His excuse: "It's not u...I just like variety!" That's not all, pick ya jawz up. He has 2 kidz and 2 babymamaz-which I knew nothing of!! Has been sleepin with my floormate-who stayed right next door (and wasnt cute)!! Also was sleepin with some1 on the floor above me! He admitted 2 coming 2 see me; then leaving 2 visit them! And let's not go to the lie he told me about him being in jail 4 3 1/2 weekz; when in actuality was at home!! He'd even call everyday and act like his calls were timed!! And 2 think I was faithful!! I admit-I was played like a dayum bored game! But that heartbreak hurt like a muhf**ga! He is lucky I didn't care enough 2 cut him! Lord knows it crossed my mind! That'll teach me never 2 date men with nicknames like "ROMEO"!! So ladiez, what would you have done? Seeked revenge? Or just say "what goes around comes around"?
Man your situation was way deeper than man. I can't believe he would do something like that. That's why I don't even like long distance relationships, it's an open opportunity to cheat. But he was cheating with people u knew too. That's why I picked my friends wisely. It's so hard for me to trust females...or really anyone. One day what he did will come back to him. One day he's going to meet someone who is going to make him want to stop his playing ways and he's going to stop. Then the what happened to you is going to happen to him. Guys are crazy sometimes. They feel like they can do no wrong. At least that's how my boyfriend felt. I guess the giving you all those stuff animals and presents was to cover up his guilt...it probably made him feel better about himself. I'm sorry all of that happened to you, but everything that happens, happens for a reason. It's a learnign experience and everything that doesnt kill u only makes u stronger.