Ladies this is something we need to realize.....

Sister's pay attention, Brothers share it with your
>mothers, daughters, sisters and friends
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>If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
>If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
>Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
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>Allow your intuition(or spirit) to save you from heartache.
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>Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship
>that's not meant to be.
>Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
>before you find what makes you truly happy.
>
>If a relationship ends because the man was not
>treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't be
>friends
>A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If
>you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
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>Don't stay because you think it will get better
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>You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
>when things are not better.
>The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
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>Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of
>different women.
>He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why
>would he treat you any differently?
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>Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries
>in how a guy treats you.
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>If something bothers you, speak up.
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>Never let a man know everything, he will use it
>against you later.
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>You cannot change a man's behavior, change comes from within.
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>Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you
>are... even if he has more education or in a better
>job.
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>Do not make him into a quasi-god.
>He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.
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>Never borrow someone else's man.
>If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
>A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to
>treat you.
>All men are NOT dogs.
>You should not be the one doing all the
>bending...compromise is two way street.
>You need time to heal between relationships...
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>there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before
>pursuing a new relationship
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>You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a
>relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look
>for
>someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he
>doesn't turn out to be Mr.
>Right.
>Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know
>where you are,
>and your always readily available to him- he takes it
>for granted.
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>Never move into his mother's house.
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>Never co-sign for a man.
>(Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)
>Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you
>everything that you need.
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>Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
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>Share this with other ladies.....
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>You'll make someone smile, another rethink her
>choices,
>and another woman prepare.
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>They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
>an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an
>entire lifetime to forget them.