NEED ADVICE PLEASE!!
ight well im new to this but i really need sum advice so if anyone could help me oout id appreciate it. Ill be attend EWC in the fall this year and i have been datin this guy for about 3 years now ever since i was a freshman in highskewl. well mah thing is i love him and i kno he loves me but lately for about a couple months now i have been feeling like...i dunno like i love him but i feel stuck in the relationship. I mean he hasnt dun anything wrong but its jus its not as great as it used to be u kno. Seein him doesnt make all the bad things in mah day go away anymore. but when i try to contemplate life without him its like theres no way so i dont wanna break up with him but the relationship isnt doin anything for me. I really dont know what i should do should i jus wait till im in college a whole new atmosphere and then jus up and dump him out the blu? but that jus seems so cruel and wrong to me...GOSH..i dunno jus lookin for sum advice frum anyone on wha i should do! thanx! Sadies
Well.....I would say if you think there may be something better out there, you should put the two of you on hold so you don't have any "what if"'s down the road. It'd be better for you just to tell him what you're thinking and what you'd prefer to do rather than feel trapped and the blame game starts. But I also need to say that with any relationship (no matter how great), the other person is not gonna make all the bad things go away forever. It's up to you and them to work together so you can work through those bad things in your day. You'll be in for a long road if you expect him to be the remedy for everything, everytime.
But if you want to see what else is out there, then do that because this really is the time for it. But don't burn your bridges in the process because you never know if you'll want to go back. Good luck to you....